So angry

Right I know I haven't had anything to say for a while but you just aren't going to believe this!
I was contacted by a friends ex, they weren't together long & he asked me if I fancied going out for a drink, I spoke to my friend & she was perfectly ok with this so I met him for a coffee, not at all dressed up, I was off to the pub job!

He had been texting me & phoning & I explained because of the history I would only be friends with him. Towards the end of last week, he was calling me & saying that his youngest daughter wasn't well, she had had cancer when she was younger & they were concerned that it had returned. Now with any friend I would say the same thing, I am here if you need me, even if you just want to let of steam & chat.

So he text & called to say that he was off to Kettering to see her & find out what was going on, he text me when he arrived & said that things weren't looking good & they were arranging a transfer to Royal Marsden. Now I don't know about you but I have always assumed that if you are being transferred you would go in an ambulance, not this family, they went in his car on the Saturday evening.....

I had a nice lazy day on Sunday, killed out with my son, watched a couple of films, had text messages from this man telling me that his daughter would be having tests in the morning.

As you all know I have a low level of trust, when my friend was dating this man, I didn't trust him, she was never allowed to know where he lived, thank god I pay for people tracer, great website if you are Internet dating, she was not allowed to meet his kids, that I understand, he was always cancelling dates & when he did turn up he went home early. Well because of this low level of trust that I have of all people, men & women, I decided it was time to do some digging.....I called Kettering hospital & said I was checking that that transfer had gone ok, they had no record of this young lady......I then called Royal Marsden.......I told them that I wanted to send a care package to my friend that had been admitted on Saturday evening......NO RECORD!

Does that mean she is not in there? Does this mean he has been lying to me? Is this a HUGE mistake on his part? Does he not realise that I WILL confront him on this & I will get my revenge, but what really really ticks me off, notice that lack of swearing, is the fact that children are the most precious things that we are given & no self respecting parent would ever use their child as an excuse, especially with the reason being her cancer has returned. This is one sick & twisted man.......there will be more to follow on this subject! xx

Extra Job & more

As some of you will know I have just started a 2nd job, as a barmaid, how long it will last I just don't know but there are some characters there. I have met a couple of grave diggers, see we are back on the funeral theme, a man that parked his horse outside, I watch a man fall of a chair & managed not to laugh. The average age in the pub has to 110, so there is no chance of meeting a man there! Unless I want someone with a dodgy heart!!!!

But moving on......I do have a date this weekend, I can't tell you too much as I want to keep this to myself until I know what I am going to do about it. It is slightly complicated & maybe I should tell you all about it as I think I am going to need advice on this one!